The righteous wife

Ibn Taymiyah said:
“A righteous wife will be with her righteous husband for many years, and she is the one who is meant in the hadeeth in which the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “This world is temporary conveniences and the best of its comforts is a believing wife, who when you look at her she pleases you and if you tell her to do something she obeys you, and if you are away from her she protects you with regard to herself and your wealth.”

This is what the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) enjoined when the Muhaajiroon asked him which kind of wealth they should acquire, and he said: “Let one of you acquire a tongue that remembers Allaah, a thankful heart, and a believing wife who will help him with regard to the Hereafter.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi from Saalim ibn Abi’l-Ja’d, from Thawbaan.

She may offer the love and compassion that Allaah speaks of in His Book, and the pain of separation may be harder for her than death in some cases, and harder than losing wealth or leaving one’s homeland, especially if one of them is fond of the other or they have children together who will be harmed by separation.”

Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (35/299)

Nushooz from the husband 

Surah Nisa’ 128. 129 130
And if a woman fears cruelty or desertion on her husband’s part, there is no sin on them both if they make terms of peace between themselves; and making peace is better. And human inner-selves are swayed by greed. But if you do good and keep away from evil, verily, Allah is Ever Well-Acquainted with what you do.
You will never be able to do perfect justice between wives even if it is your ardent desire, so do not incline too much to one of them (by giving her more of your time and provision) so as to leave the other hanging (i.e. neither divorced nor married). And if you do justice, and do all that is right and fear Allah by keeping away from all that is wrong, then Allah is Ever Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
But if they separate (by divorce), Allah will provide abundance for everyone of them from His Bounty. And Allah is Ever All-Sufficient for His creatures’ need, All-Wise.

What Ibn kathir رحمة الله عليه has understood the ayat to mean.

Before you want to correct..

Taken from Haleh Banai Facebook

When you want to correct your spouse or kids, make sure you think about the way you present it in order for it to be well received. When you take a few minutes to reflect about the consequence of your criticism, you will prevent a lot of heartaches.
If you were to receive your favorite watch, phone or gadget but it was thrown at you rather than packaged and handed with love, you would be offended even though it’s something you love. What about hearing criticism? 
Package the criticism so that it will be well received.
1.Think it through

2.Be gentle

3.Have wisdom

4.Choose your words carefully

5.Be humble

6. Choose the right time